Professor in Pumps - Millennial PhD Interview Series

The Millennial PhD Interview Series is one of my favorite types of content to create. I love meeting millennial academics and learning about their grad school experience! Every interview I do is unique and provides an interesting perspective on grad school and academia AND is always valuable!

This week, I’m sharing an interview with Dr. P from Professor In Pumps and I highly recommend following her on Instagram @professorinpumps!

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We will start with a brief bio: job title, where you went to grad school

Hello all, I am Dr. P! I am currently the clinical counseling director and a psychotherapist for a non-profit agency where I provide treatment to individuals with emotional, physical and sexual abuse. I am also the founder of Professor in Pumps an academic fashion and lifestyle blog. This year I graduated with my Ph.D. from the University of the Cumberlands in leadership with an emphasis on counselor education and supervision. Before that, I attended Winthrop University for my Masters in Counseling and Development and my B.A. in Psychology came from St. Bonaventure University.

Then a little history: where are you from? When did you decide to go to grad school? Did you start grad school knowing you wanted exactly what you wanted to do?

I am originally from upstate New York but currently live in the Carolinas. I am right on the border between North and South Carolina so it feels like I live in both states. My whole life I knew I was going to be a "doctor" but I never really knew what type I would become. After struggling greatly in my undergraduate program I realized that chemistry and medicine was not my calling. Psychology was very interesting and helped me get my foot in the door of my master's program. I had a very difficult time in college managing my freedom and trying to stay on top of my grades so I did not do well academically. There were a lot of hard life lessons that I needed to learn before I was ready to step out into the real world.

What was your first semester of grad school like?

When I think back on my first semester of grad school (masters) I had no idea what I was getting into but I knew that I had to prove to myself that I could do it. I moved 775 miles away from my family and had to support myself in a new city without knowing a single person. I was also dating someone that I was head over heels for that had deployed to Iraq around the same time as my start date. My first semester was scary and sad but exciting rolled into one. I remember, I actually decided to skip one of my classes because I flew out to Texas (which did end up counting against me on my attendance) because I was saying goodbye to my boyfriend of the time as he was about to deploy. That first semester was not something I look back on fondly because it was painful but out of that I started to grow personally and academically.

When did you finally feel like you got the hang of grad school?

I realized that I was getting the hang of grad school when I found routines. The structure of my day helped me keep myself focused on school. As a shy person, I was slow at making friends and a lot the time I felt pretty lonely so I really threw myself into school. Every night I was doing homework, reading and working on papers which led to good grades and quick mastery of the material. After realizing that this routine was helping me learn (something I missed the point of in undergrad) I started to become more confident in myself and that led me to branch out. I started to take on more responsibilities working as an assistant for the program director and helping coordinate the community clinic. My master's program was where I really thrived very quickly after a difficult undergrad.

My doc program was a different story. I applied for doc programs while I was in my last semester of my masters and was repeatedly shot down by schools because I was "too young" and "did not have enough experience." This made me really mad and lit a fire under me to get into a program. I was fortunate enough that I did get accepted into an online Ph.D. program that specialized in counselor education with a focus on trauma. Unfortunately, the asynchronous rigors of this program hit me hard and I ultimately ended up burning out. After recovering from my burnout, I transferred to another online school that provided a synchronous classroom and this was when again I started to thrive. One takeaway I will say is that if you know what type of learning style you thrive in making sure you seek that out when looking at grad schools or considering transferring to different programs. I am definitely the type of person who needs face-to-face contact with a strict schedule for studying. I wish I had learned that in my undergrad instead of two years into my Ph.D. but that is just life!

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What was your workload like when you were taking classes (coursework)?

The workload in my master's program was very focused on face-to-face clinical skills where the Ph.D. program focused mostly on writing and fine-tuning the academic side of my education.

How did you manage your time? (Readings, papers, presentations, lab work) Example of a daily/weekly schedule.

Managing my time changed as I grew into a professional. In my master's program, I was going to school full time and working part-time as an assistant and then worked for free as an intern. Everything in my masters was focused on counseling skills but it had a workable flow. In my Ph.D. program, I was working not just one but two counseling jobs, going to school full time and working again as a TA intern for free. This is also when I moved in with the man that I would end up marrying, so the joys of starting a new chapter in a relationship also impacted how I managed my time. The master's program was very intense but it was nothing compared to the Ph.D. I actually kept a journal and wrote down what my schedule was during my worst semester and pulled it out for this interview. It basically had me working from 7am-2pm as a school-based therapist, then a 1hr drive to my teaching assistant internship (no pay), 3pm-5pm was spent in supervision and lesson planning with my TA professor, followed by teaching class from 5-8pm then my TA professor would let me sit in her office while the campus police closed down the school and I would log into my Ph.D. classes from 8-9:30pm with a 30min drive home after. On the days I was not teaching I was working my second job for the non-profit (the one I am now the clinical director) from 3-8pm seeing clients. It was difficult but after that I know I can take on anything that comes my way!

How did you motivate yourself to get your work done?

My motivation to get things done started out of the fact that I was lonely but soon became a way for me to gain confidence in my work as a counselor. The better I did the more motivation I gained to get things done and get them done well. Taking pride in my work helped me get the best out what I was learning.

What about friends? Did you have time to hang with them?

As I mentioned, I did not have friends at first but grew to have some deep and powerful friendships. One of my friends in the master's program introduced me to my fiance and is off pursuing her own Ph.D. right now. Other friends that I gained were not in Ph.D. or masters programs but are loving and caring people who were fine with me sitting on my computer during game nights rather than playing. They understood that even though I was working I wanted to be with them and whatever way I could make that work they understood. I was very blessed to find friends like this!

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Where you able to find time for yourself? How often did you have “me time”? Do you have any advice for grad students when it comes to time management, productivity, and “me time” while in grad school?

Rolling these three questions into one long answer!

SELF-CARE! Yes, I could speak on this for days! I recently did a post for @academeology where I described how I overcame that crazy schedule I mentioned above! The number one thing I will recommend is support, support, support!! You can do this alone but you don't have to, find a team that is going to help you and schedule your time off.

One of the things I did not anticipate in working on my dissertation was the level of carpal tunnel that I would develop from typing every day. So, when I was about to enter into my difficult semester with the 14-15 hour days I purchased a massage membership for 12 weeks (just enough to get me through the semester). I knew the chaos was coming so I planned ahead and saved to pay for the entire 12 weeks upfront. This was the hands-down best decision of my life. Not only did the massages help ease my carpal tunnel they forced me to take one hour a week for myself. By using the massages to help ease the pain and tightness from my carpal tunnel, it helped me decrease the "self-care guilt." You know what I mean, that guilty feeling you get when you want to take care of yourself but feel bad that you are not writing.

So I highly recommend that you find something that will work for you like a massage, coffee dates at home with peers, library venting sessions, seeing a therapist (I did this too), or going for a run. Then schedule that time and protect it, let nothing get in the way of you doing what you need during that time.

I can say 4 months after graduating with my Ph.D. and reflecting on my academic career I by no means did it perfectly. Nor did I know what I was doing half the time! I did have some amazing mentors and people that helped guide me and that really made all the difference. My carpal tunnel has also completely disappeared...funny how that works. This little snippet is by no means all the fun chaos that I had over my 10 years in school but hopefully, it is a little insight that will help with the journey that you find yourself on!

Wasn’t that an amazing interview? You can learn more about Dr. P on her website, Professor In Pumps and follow her on Instagram to share how much you enjoyed her interview!

My past interviews were in video format and can be found on The Academic Society’s Facebook page. My first interview was with Dr. Brian Foster and he talked about his experience in grad school and how that led him to becoming an Assistant Professor of Sociology and Southern Studies.

During that interview, we talked about:
>>Feeling isolated in your department
>>Being lost your first year
>>The importance of reflection
>>How to schedule your day
>>The "Potluck Principle"
>>How to get through all of your readings
>>How to make time for yourself in grad school

Plus, Brian shared his top 3 tips for success in graduate school.

My second interview was with Dr. Andrea Hadjikyriacou! Andrea received her PhD in Biochemistry and Molecular Biology from UCLA. Now she has a Post-doctoral research position at a biotech company. On top of that, Andrea runs a fashion blog to help grad students and other professionals style outfits for conferences, interviews, and work. She also gives great grad school advice! You can find her at PhD Fashionista or

In the interview, Andrea gives advice about:
-time management
-grad school bullying
-mental health and anxiety
-choosing a career path other than academia

How to choose the right grad school program for you, grad school advice

10 Must-Read Books for Grad Students

Have you heard that I’m an author now?  Yes! I published my very first book #GRADBOSS:  A Grad School Survival Guide a few weeks ago and the reception and support has been amazing.  

#GRADBOSS is the ultimate grad school survival guide.  #GRADBOSS includes worksheets, templates, workflows, and actionable advice from a millennial (me) who got her PhD in Math and landed her dream job before graduation.

10 Must Read Books for Grad Students, The Academic Society


A gradboss is a grad student who has figured out how to balance grad school and real life. They are productive but they also have a social life. In addition to killing it academically, they've built a supportive community around them AND they help others.  Can you imagine being completely successful in grad school without being overwhelmed? 


#GRADBOSS walks you through:

-preparing for a new semester of grad school

-creating a productive weekly schedule

-setting realistic goals

-being productive despite having unstructured time

-cultivating meaningful relationships

-choosing an advisor

-handling failure in grad school

-having a life outside of grad school

As I was finishing up the book, I asked my community of grad students in The Academic Society for Grad Students what books they thought were essential for grad students.  They gave me great suggestions and that prompted me to write this blog post.

10 Must Read Books for Grad Students, The Academic Society

So here is a list of must-read books for grad students, recommended by grad students.  I will include shoppable links to each book so this post may include affiliate links. Also, the descriptions will come from Amazon.

#GRADBOSS:  A Grad School Survival Guide

This is a book that I wrote for grad students to share the tips, hacks, and strategies that I learned as a grad student.  The book is very actionable with homework, worksheets, and templates for you to work through.

The first 3 chapters are all about how to set up a productive schedule and organize your life at the beginning of the semester.  The rest of the chapters consist of super practical and actionable strategies to help you survive grad school.

You can purchase the book on Amazon in paperback and on Kindle!

The Now Habit

THE NOW HABIT offers a comprehensive plan to help readers lower their stress and increase their time to enjoy guilt-free play. Dr. Fiore’s techniques will help any busy person start tasks sooner and accomplish them more quickly, without the anxiety brought on by the negative habits of procrastination and perfectionism.

Deep Work

Deep work is the ability to focus without distraction on a cognitively demanding task. It's a skill that allows you to quickly master complicated information and produce better results in less time. Deep work will make you better at what you do and provide the sense of true fulfillment that comes from craftsmanship. In short, deep work is like a super power in our increasingly competitive twenty-first century economy. And yet, most people have lost the ability to go deep-spending their days instead in a frantic blur of e-mail and social media, not even realizing there's a better way.

In DEEP WORK, author and professor Cal Newport flips the narrative on impact in a connected age. Instead of arguing distraction is bad, he instead celebrates the power of its opposite. Dividing this book into two parts, he first makes the case that in almost any profession, cultivating a deep work ethic will produce massive benefits. He then presents a rigorous training regimen, presented as a series of four "rules," for transforming your mind and habits to support this skill.

A mix of cultural criticism and actionable advice, DEEP WORK takes the reader on a journey through memorable stories -- from Carl Jung building a stone tower in the woods to focus his mind, to a social media pioneer buying a round-trip business class ticket to Tokyo to write a book free from distraction in the air -- and no-nonsense advice, such as the claim that most serious professionals should quit social media and that you should practice being bored. DEEP WORK is an indispensable guide to anyone seeking focused success in a distracted world.

The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women:  Why Capable People Suffer from Imposter Syndrome and How to Thrive in Spite of It

It’s only because they like me. I was in the right place at the right time. I just work harder than the others. I don’t deserve this. It’s just a matter of time before I am found out. Someone must have made a terrible mistake. 

If you are a working woman, chances are this inter­nal monologue sounds all too familiar. And you’re not alone. From the high-achieving Ph.D. candidate convinced she’s only been admitted to the program because of a clerical error to the senior executive who worries others will find out she’s in way over her head, a shocking number of accomplished women in all ca­reer paths and at every level feel as though they are faking it—impostors in their own lives and careers. 


While the impostor syndrome is not unique to women, women are more apt to agonize over tiny mistakes, see even constructive criticism as evi­dence of their shortcomings, and chalk up their accomplishments to luck rather than skill. They often unconsciously overcompensate with crippling perfec­tionism, overpreparation, maintaining a lower pro­file, withholding their talents and opinions, or never finishing important projects. When they do succeed, they think, Phew, I fooled ’em again. 


An internationally known speaker, Valerie Young has devoted her career to understanding women’s most deeply held beliefs about themselves and their success. In her decades of in-the-trenches research, she has uncovered the often surprising reasons why so many accomplished women experience this crushing self-doubt. 


In The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women, Young gives these women the solution they have been seek­ing. Combining insightful analysis with effective ad­vice and anecdotes, she explains what the impostor syndrome is, why fraud fears are more common in women, and how you can recognize the way it mani­fests in your life.

HeadStrong:  52 Women Who Changed Science-and the World

In 2013, the New York Times published an obituary for Yvonne Brill. It began: “She made a mean beef stroganoff, followed her husband from job to job, and took eight years off from work to raise three children.” It wasn’t until the second paragraph that readers discovered why the Times had devoted several hundred words to her life: Brill was a brilliant rocket scientist who invented a propulsion system to keep communications satellites in orbit, and had recently been awarded the National Medal of Technology and Innovation. Among the questions the obituary—and consequent outcry—prompted were, Who are the role models for today’s female scientists, and where can we find the stories that cast them in their true light?      

Headstrong delivers a powerful, global, and engaging response. Covering Nobel Prize winners and major innovators, as well as lesser-known but hugely significant scientists who influence our every day, Rachel Swaby’s vibrant profiles span centuries of courageous thinkers and illustrate how each one’s ideas developed, from their first moment of scientific engagement through the research and discovery for which they’re best known. This fascinating tour reveals 52 women at their best—while encouraging and inspiring a new generation of girls to put on their lab coats.

The Unwritten Rules of PhD Research (Open Up Study Skills)

This bestselling book on the process of PhD research provides readers with engaging discussion and comprehensive guidance on aspects that other books don't usually mention.

Covering all the key topics of the previous edition, including what a PhD is really about, how to do one well, how to decipher what your supervisor actually means by terms like 'good referencing' and 'clean research question', and how to design, report and defend your research,the authors continue to offer an accessible, down-to-earth, and insightful account of the whole PhD process. Their advice addresses how to avoid some of the pitfalls en route to a successful submission.

Updated throughout, the new edition includes new material on:

  • Critical thinking

  • Research skills

  • The route to research independence

  • Different models of study

The Unwritten Rules of PhD Research is essential reading for anyone considering a PhD or embarking on one. It will tell you the things many students wish someone had told them before they started.

The Dissertation Warrior:  The Ultimate Guide to Being the Kind of Person Who Finishes a Doctoral Dissertation or Thesis

Don’t read this book if you want a quick and dirty way to finish your dissertation or thesis, write it in a weekend, or pay someone else to write it for you. This book is for the doctoral student who wants to become the best version of himself or herself; whose doctoral journey is a quest of epic personal, professional, and spiritual transformation; and who wants to finish his or her dissertation as well. Inside this book, you’ll learn, among many other things:

-The secrets of time travel;

-That 99% of that which gets your focus is not worth your time;

-That “writing” your dissertation is the last thing that you should do; and

-How to conquer your introduction, create alignment, build the best darned literature review you possibly can, find and collect your data, and connect all the clues better than a hat-wearing movie archeologist

…all while becoming a better spouse, sibling, child of your parents, and man (or woman) of all seasons.

Little Bets: How Breakthrough Ideas Emerge from Small Discoveries

What do Apple CEO Steve Jobs, comedian Chris Rock, prize-winning architect Frank Gehry, and the story developers at Pixar films all have in common? Bestselling author Peter Sims found that rather than start with a big idea or plan a whole project in advance, they make a methodical series of little bets, learning critical information from lots of little failures and from small but significant wins.

Reporting on a fascinating range of research, from the psychology of creative blocks to the influential field of design thinking, Sims offers engaging and illuminating accounts of breakthrough innovators at work, and a whole new way of thinking about how to navigate uncertain situations and unleash our untapped creative powers.

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success

After decades of research, world-renowned Stanford University psychologist Carol S. Dweck, Ph.D., discovered a simple but groundbreaking idea: the power of mindset. In this brilliant book, she shows how success in school, work, sports, the arts, and almost every area of human endeavor can be dramatically influenced by how we think about our talents and abilities. People with a fixed mindset—those who believe that abilities are fixed—are less likely to flourish than those with a growth mindset—those who believe that abilities can be developed. Mindset reveals how great parents, teachers, managers, and athletes can put this idea to use to foster outstanding accomplishment.

In this edition, Dweck offers new insights into her now famous and broadly embraced concept. She introduces a phenomenon she calls false growth mindset and guides people toward adopting a deeper, truer growth mindset. She also expands the mindset concept beyond the individual, applying it to the cultures of groups and organizations. With the right mindset, you can motivate those you lead, teach, and love—to transform their lives and your own.

You Are a Badass®: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life

In this refreshingly entertaining how-to guide, bestselling author and world-traveling success coach, Jen Sincero, serves up 27 bitesized chapters full of hilariously inspiring stories, sage advice, easy exercises, and the occasional swear word, helping you to: Identify and change the self-sabotaging beliefs and behaviors that stop you from getting what you want, Create a life you totally love. And create it NOW, Make some damn money already. The kind you've never made before.

By the end of You Are a Badass, you'll understand why you are how you are, how to love what you can't change, how to change what you don't love, and how to use The Force to kick some serious ass.

Are there any other books that should be added to this list? Share them in the comments so that other grad students can check them out!

How Theme Days Can Support Your Professional Goals

The following article is a guest post by Dr. Leigh Hall of Teaching Academia. More details about Leigh and her platform can be found below the article.

Throughout my academic career, I have found that it's easy to get overwhelmed with a variety of tasks. And, honestly, most of these tasks are things I enjoy and want to do! But the more I say "yes" to things, and the higher the pile becomes, the greater stress I begin to feel and the less enjoyable everything is.

Sound familiar?

It's hard to focus on writing that manuscript when I know I have a pile of papers to grade.

It's hard to focus on grading papers when I know that manuscript needs revisions.

And it's hard to focus on planning for my classes when I know I need to be designing a study.

I realized that when I started doing one thing my mind skipped ahead to all of the other things I needed to do. Yet, when I got around to one of those other things, my brain started running through the laundry list of still more things I needed to do.

Yep. I had a focus problem.

How Theme Days can Support your Professional Goals | The Academic Society for grad students and academics

But all of that changed when I learned about the concept of theme days while reading the book Make Time: How To Focus on What Matters Every Day.

What Are Theme Days?

The idea behind theme days is simple. You begin by assigning a theme for your day. In my case, a theme would be research, teaching, or service. Each day then has specific goals and objectives that I am working towards as well as its own schedule.

The beautiful thing about theme days is that it helps manage the thoughts that creep into my head and attempt to distract me. For example, if I am writing a manuscript, and thoughts pop up about teaching, I know that I can (usually - barring an emergency) ignore them because I have a specific day and time set aside to contend with those issues.

How Do You Create Theme Days?

What your days look like will depend on your job description. My job breaks down as follows:

  • 60% research; this is things like writing grants and publications as well as collecting and analyzing data

  • 25% teaching; I teach one class each semester

  • 10% service; this is all the stuff you would expect

  • 5% advising; I advise masters and doctoral students

So, to start, find out what percentage of your job falls into research/teaching/service.

Next, convert your number of hours worked per week into percentages. I know we all work more than 40 hours per week. But, for this example, I'm going to stick to 40. You should adjust things as needed.

In a 40-hour work week, those percentages above translate into:

  • 24 hours per week (minimum) for research activities

  • 10 hours per week (minimum) for teaching activities

I left service out of the equation for now because I have found that it's not a set percentage that needs to be attended to in any given week. It fluctuates. More on that in a minute.

For a 40 day work week, this means that:

  • research activities, at 24 hours, should be assigned to three eight hour days

  • teaching activities can be split into two five hour days

Obviously you can configure this a number of ways. All of that adds up to 34 hours. This gives me six hours to plug in service and/or create content for my youtube channel which is directly tied to my job.

Setting Your Theme Days

Now that you know how your job breaks down, and how much time you are expected to devote to each category, you can assign each day a theme. For the upcoming academic year, I have done the following:

  • Research: Monday/Tuesday/Thursday

  • Teaching: Wednesday/Friday

  • Content Creation: Wednesday/Friday

Service is still missing from here, and I've added in a new theme: content creation. As much as possible, I try to schedule all my meetings on Wednesdays and Fridays. This includes committee meetings and advising meetings. I'm not always in control of when committee meetings get set. This means that, every so often, a research or teaching day might get interrupted with a one hour committee meeting. However, this is rare and, overall, not too disruptive.

Content creation, like service, fluctuates in terms of how much attention I need to give to this. Some weeks I can get by with very little time and other times it takes more. I put it with teaching because teaching also flexes in terms of how much time it demands. The start of the semester will be a bit slower. The middle and end are typically busier. The amount of time I need for both teaching and content creation activities is not as consistent as the time I need for research.

Now that you have your days set up let's drill down into what you do on a given one.

Creating Goals & Objectives For Your Theme Days

For any given day, you want to have one-three goals you are working towards accomplishing. Goals are going to give you the bigger picture. They can include:

  • Submitting a manuscript

  • Revising and resubmitting a manuscript

  • Writing a grant proposal

  • Writing a conference proposal

  • Revising a program

  • Creating an advising philosophy

You get the point. These are big ticket items that cannot be completed in a single sitting.

Once you have your goal, let's use writing and submitting a manuscript as the example, you then want to set a deadline. For each day, you want to have specific objectives that move you towards completing your goal and meeting your deadline. I might do the following in starting a new manuscript:

If I'm starting a new manuscript, I might say that I'll be ready to submit it by December 15th. How will I accomplish this?I know that on Monday/Wednesday/Thursday I will, for some of that time, be working on writing it. There's a number of ways I can create objectives for each of those times. Here are some examples:

  • Draft the methods section

  • Revise the methods and findings sections

  • Read the literature that will support my theoretical framework

Notice that I didn't just say, "Write for two hours." While I will have set aside a specific block of time for my writing, I will also have specific things I am going to focus on during that time. I always know what I'm going to do when I sit down to write. When the time is up, I assess what I did/did not get done and write my objective(s) for the next session.

For example, drafting the methods section might take me three days. I don't assume that I will meet the objective in one sitting. However, having that objective gives me a purpose for my writing and allows me to hone in on what I am doing. If it is not completed I will roll it over.

Managing Your Time On a Given Day

Finally, map out how you will structure your time on a given day. For example, recently my research themed days went like this:

  • 7:00-11:00 am (writing)

  • 11:00-3:30: Data collection/analysis/research team meetings

I can break that down even further:

  • 7:00-9:00: Working on manuscript

    • Draft methods section

  • 9:00-10:00: Grant proposal

    • Read feedback and start revisions

  • 10:00-11:00: Conference proposal

    • Review the call, identify proposal type, and sketch out an outline

  • 11:00-11:30: Break

  • 11:30-12:30: Research Team Meeting

    • Each meeting will have an agenda based on where we are with the project

  • 12:30-2:30: Data analysis

    • Continue coding surveys

  • 2:30-3:30: Analysis Write Up

    • Write up what I have learned from the coding, questions I have, things I noticed, and next steps

The Benefits of Theme Days

I love using the concept of theme days in my work. It has helped keep me focused and made life more manageable. When thoughts creep in about other work I should be doing, I know that time has already been accounted for it so I can relax. It's easy to push the thought of, "You should be grading," aside when I know I have time specifically set up for that.

Finally, keep in mind that you can adjust this approach as needed. For example, you could have Monday mornings be about research and your afternoons might be devoted to teaching. The entire day doesn't need to be assigned a theme, and you may find that doing so won't work for you. But having large blocks of time devoted to a theme, and then goals/objectives and a schedule in place, will help keep your attention directed at what needs to be done.

Want a handout that will support you in designing theme days? Get it here.

Did you find this blog post extremely helpful? Then you will love other articles by Dr. Leigh Hall from Teaching Academia.

Leigh Hall received her PhD in Curriculum and Instruction, with an emphasis on literacy, from Michigan State University in 2005. She’s now a Professor and Endowed Chair of Adolescent literacy. .Teaching Academia focuses on helping you navigate academia to make your best impact. On this site, you will learn how to elevate your scholarship, teaching, and service activities in ways that help you have the career you want. You will learn specific tools and techniques you can use right now that will allow you to make an immediate impact.

Professor on Vacation: Miami Girls’ Trip Guide

In The Academic Society, we believe that hard work should be celebrated.  And what better way to celebrate a successful semester than with a vacation with my girls?  This year, my high school besties and I turned 30 so of course we had to plan a Flirty Thirty getaway!  We choose to celebrate in Miami and it was an amazing time.

Like the academics we are (we all went to the Mississippi School for Math and Science for high school or as I like to refer to it “nerd school”), we decided that our vacation should have a theme.  So we thought about what we really wanted from this girls’ trip and that was to relax, refocus, and rebuild. Which is exactly what we did.

When I told my mom about our vacation theme, Relax. Refocus. Rebuild. she laughed and said, “of course, even your vacations sound like a conference!”

Related Video: Day in the Life of a Professor

In this post, I’ll share exactly how we relaxed, refocused, and rebuilt during our vacation so that if you decide to travel to Miami with your friends, you have a little guidance.  I’ve also filmed a video guide, vlog style, if you prefer to watch instead of read.

Top Three Tips for Traveling to Miami

We actually made some pretty good decisions about our trip and made very few missteps.  There were three main decisions that we made that really enhanced our Miami vacation experience.

Travel Rewards Credit Cards.  ⅘ of my friend group have the Chase Sapphire Preferred Card so we were able to use our points to travel.  I think this is the perfect card for new professionals interested in traveling. I booked my flight completely with my points and paid $0 so I felt that I could splurge on checking my luggage so that I could fit in a few extra outfits.  One of the best parts about the Chase Sapphire Preferred Card is that there is a signing bonus of 60,000 points if you spend $4,000 in the first 3 months of having your card. Note: my flight to Miami only cost me ~30,000 points. Here are some major benefits of the card:

  • Car Rental Insurance (helpful for my next tip)

  • Lost Luggage Reimbursement

  • No Foreign Transaction Fees

  • Roadside Assistance

  • Sharing Points with Friends

If you are interested in a Chase Sapphire Preferred Card of your own, you can learn more here!

Renting a Car.  We are so glad we made the decision to rent a car for our trip.  Miami attractions are located in multiple different neighborhoods that are miles apart.  We saved so much money by renting a car instead of using Uber or Lyft. At first, we were concerned about parking fees and gas but in the end we each only spent $10 to park and $5 for gas per person (there were 5 of us).

AirBnB.  Since there were five of us we decided to get a three bedroom AirBnB in North Miami.  It was so great to have the space to relax and decompress after each day. We had many girls’ nights with snacks and rom-coms on Netflix. Here’s the place where we stayed!

Miami Day 1

We actually flew into Fort Lauderdale and made sure to arrive within two hours of each other (we came from 5 different states).  Then we rented a standard SUV (which was a Chevy Equinox) from the airport and went shopping in the area based on a suggestion from our rental car agent.  She suggested we check out Sawgrass Mills which is the largest outlet and retail destination in the United States (their words).

If you are a shopper, you will love Sawgrass Mills.  There was a wide range of stores from high end designer shops to bargain shopping.


After shopping the day away, we finally made drove to our AirBnB in North Miami.  And decided to do some grocery shopping and pick up dinner to-go. We wanted to try Cuban food so we went to Little Havana Restaurant.  It was soooo delicious. The meals my crew and I recommend are the Palomilla Steak, Ropa Vieja, Chunks of Chicken, and Chunks of Pork. Each meal comes with the most delicious rice and beans and plantains.

Miami Day 2

On our second day we were rested enough from our travels to have a full day of exploring.  We stayed in North Miami for breakfast at Cafe Creme. We loved the atmosphere and the food was delicious!  The place was also very cute and Instagram pic worthy.


After breakfast, we headed to the neighborhood of Wynwood which is the art district.  There were beautiful murals on the side of almost every village. This was picture day for us!  There were so many cute backgrounds. We went to a park called Wynwood Walls. This is the perfect place to take a lot of pictures.  I recommend wearing solid colors so that you don’t clash with the background in your pictures.


Then we headed to a neighborhood called Little River with the most amazing place for food and good vibes, The Citadel.  The Citadel was probably my favorite place in Miami. On their website they describe it as, “a daily destination offering local artisanal foods, handcrafted cocktails, maker-driven retail, and culturally immersive experiences.” 


The food was delicious and I would have loved to go back if we had time in our schedules.  There are multiple little restaurants inside with food truck style menus. I ate from the Caribbean place and got gelato for dessert.  I highly recommend this place! I think they also have a rooftop and occasionally have live music.

And finally, for more dessert, we went to Cindy Lou’s Cookie bakery.  I didn’t personally get cookies but my friends enjoyed them.

Miami Day 3

We had the best weather on the third day of our trip so we decided to go to South Beach.  Once we got to the neighborhood, we went to the popular diner, Big Pink. Everything there is big and pink.  Even the windows of the restaurant were pink so everything had a pink glow and looked like an Instagram filter.  The most popular item on the menu was definitely the chicken and waffles. A couple of my friends got it and loved it!


When you go to South Beach, I recommend parking in a lot next to Big Pink.  There is street parking everywhere that you have to pay by the hour. But the valet parking next to Big Pink is only $10 for the whole day (June 2019).

After brunch, we headed to the beach across the street and went through the Marriot entrance.  There we rented a cabana bed thing that fit all five of us for $100 ($20/person). I highly recommend some type of cabana or umbrella if you want to enjoy your beach day in the heat.  Also, make sure that you bring water and snacks!


We stayed there for a couple hours and then went to the neighborhood of Coral Gables for a refreshing treat.  We got paletas (ice pops) from Morelia Gourmet Paletas. I got the strawberry paleta half dipped in chocolate and hazelnuts.  It was sooooo good!


Miami Day 4

On our final day, we went to multiple neighborhoods.  We started in Bayside which kind of has a boardwalk vibe.  There is a shopping center that overlooks the water and we went to the Hard Rock Cafe for lunch.


Then we went back to Wynwood for a day party called Afro Beats.  There was music, drinks, and food. We hung out there for a while before finally going to Little Havana.

Little Havana had been on our list of must-see neighborhoods for our trip.  It was smaller than expected but pack a lot of Cuban culture in those few city blocks.  We went to Domino Park to watch the older people play dominos, watched someone make cigars, got churros, and went to the Ball and Chain.

The Ball and Chain is a restaurant/lounge that plays cuban music and on Thursdays at 9pm they offer free salsa lessons.  We got appetizers and drinks there. We ordered mint lemonade, cuban sandwich, wings, corn on the cob, chicken sliders. It was a really fun hangout spot that I would highly recommend to anyone visiting Little Havana.

And then we went back to our AirBnB to pack and prepare for our early morning flights.

I hope that this blog post helped you plan your next vacation!  Any suggestions on where we should go for our next girls’ trip?

9 Cheap and Easy Side Hustles for Grad Students and Academics

I inadvertently started my first side hustle when I was a grad student and discovered blogging.  I started my blog with all intentions of it just being a hobby. Because I noticed that I had stopped doing things “just for fun”. You know how grad school demanding and all consuming.  It takes over your life! Can you relate?

Anyway, I started my blog and learned about affiliate marketing.  You know, the thing most Instagramers and YouTubers do. They talk about products that their audience would like.  And if their fans purchase the products using their link, the influencer could make a commission from the sale.

Well, as it turns out, this was just the beginning for me!  Learning about business became a major hobby of mine. Over the next five years, I learned everything I could about entrepreneurship and online marketing and I even started a couple side hustles beyond affiliate marketing.

As you can probably tell by the title of my website, I talk with a lot of grad students and academics.  And one of the topics that has come up is funding. Funding can be an issue in academia. Especially summer funding!

So, this summer, I’ll be running a program called Side Hustle Summer School to help grad students and academics start a profitable side hustle that requires minimal time and money to get started.

Sound interesting?  Well, I’ve created a free cheatsheet on the logistics of starting a side hustle in grad school or academia.  And by downloading the cheatsheet, you’ll get an invitation to join my FREE mini course on how to make money in academia.

Download the Side Hustle Cheatsheet

You may already know what kind of side hustle you want to start.  But you may not. So the purpose of this blog post is to give you a few ideas to help you get started.

9 Cheap and Easy Side Hustles for Grad Students and Academics

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Every side hustle on this list is really easy to get started, really inexpensive to get started, or both.

Side Hustle Idea 1:  Tutoring

This one is probably a no-brainer.  As someone who has made it to grad school or beyond, you know a lot about school at this point.  You can tutor undergrads studying in your field. You could help with writing, problem-solving, or math.  You could even help students prepare for the SAT/ACT or the GRE.

Side Hustle Idea 2:  Virtual Assistant

Being a virtual assistant is a great side hustle to start because you can work for another business owner and learn a lot about how they run their business which could help you with yours.  Plus, you can do your VA tasks on your own time. Virtual Assistants to business owners typically do tasks such as transcribing videos or podcasts, schedule social media posts, or manage email inboxes.

Side Hustle Idea 3:  Social Media Manager

If you are particularly skilled or interested in social media and understand what works and doesn’t work on each platform, you could manage the social media accounts for another business owner.  There is a particular need for social media managers by businesses owned by “more mature” entrepreneurs or brick and mortar businesses. Your youth and social media know-how could be a major asset to them.

Side Hustle Idea 4:  Freelance Writing

I know you probably already do a lot of writing for school.  But is it fun and creative? You know, businesses pay people to write articles, quotes, and social media captions.  They could be paying you!

Side Hustle Idea 5:  Write a Book

Did you know that you can self-publish a physical book or an ebook for free on Amazon?  Well, you can and it’s super easy to do. So if you are interested in writing self-help, fiction, a cookbook, or even a book on crafting, you can write it and sell it on Amazon the very next day!

Side Hustle Idea 6:  House/Pet Sitting

Living in a college town can be great because everything revolves around the university that you attend/work at.  And often, professors will travel for the summer or go on sabbatical for a semester or to a conference for weeks. These people have pets and plants that they can’t take with them.  Or they just don’t want their houses to sit empty for weeks or months at a time. You could be their house/pet sitter.

Side Hustle Idea 7:  Nannying

For the same reasons listed above, professors may need babysitters.  If you like kids, this is something you could do for extra funds.

Side Hustle Idea 8:  Photography

If you own a nice camera and are passionate about capturing moments, you could be a photographer.  You could be a graduation photographer and specialize in senior pictures. You could take professional headshots for people at your university.  You could even be a wedding photographer! So many possibilities.

Side Hustle Idea 9:  Professional Organizer

There are so many people who struggle with creating an organized and decluttered space.  If you enjoy organizing and decluttering, you could do it professionally!

So what do you think?  These were just a few options but there are so many more side hustles that you could start as an academic.  

Does the process of starting a profitable side hustle sound overwhelming to you?  Not sure about the logistics or how much time and money it would actually take to do this?

I’ve answered those questions in my side hustle cheatsheet.  When you download the cheatsheet, you’ll be invited to my free mini course:  Make Money in Academia where I will walk you through coming up with your side hustle idea, creating a business plan, and actually starting your side hustle.

Download the Side Hustle Cheatsheet

How Two Grad Students Built an Accountability Relationship Online

I’ve noticed that, in grad school, there can be a disconnect between setting goals and following through on those goals.  Most of us love to plan and organize and make to-do lists. You probably spend Sunday evening or Monday morning setting goals and intentions for the week ahead.  I do!

But how many of those tasks do you actually get done each week? 75%, 50%, or 10%?

Sometimes it can be hard to find the motivation to actually follow through on those goals.  Especially, when you have so much unstructured time and no hard deadlines. It can be too easy to procrastinate.

Related Video:  The Only Way to Beat Procrastination

I believe that one way to actually follow through on those goals and responsibilities is through accountability.  I just wrote a blog post all about the 3 ways you can get started with accountability in grad school.

Today, I want to focus on the first step:  getting an accountability partner. I believe that accountability partners are essential for healthy and realistic productivity in grad school.  I believe in it so much that it is a major pillar of my group program, The Productivity Accelerator for grad students.

I first ran this 2-week program in February and 10 amazing grad students joined the program.  In the program, I paired each grad student up with an accountability partner. In this blog post, I will be highlighting one of those partnerships.

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Meet Mary and Katherine.  Mary lives in Florida and Katherine in Hawaii.  I recently discovered that they were still meeting as accountability partners even after the Productivity Accelerator had ended.  So I asked them to share their story.

Mary’s POV

We met each other through the productivity accelerator through zoom and then we maintained conversation on Facebook messenger! We mostly used Facebook to video chat once a week or every two weeks to touch base on our goals, and then we chat throughout the week on Facebook.

I have never had an accountability partner before, and after that I feel like I have a support system from the complete other side of the country. Before I felt overwhelmed and I was hesitant to speak about what was overwhelmed me.

But we share our own stories, I feel like I learn so much on how to tackle these everyday issues of being a grad student, including academic life, research, friendships and how to navigate interpersonal challenges in this environment that can be very high stress.

After this partnership, I felt more motivated and focused. Also, talking through issues like imposter syndrome helped me feel like graduate school is actually where I belong at this moment in my life. I realized that I am not alone, and that we are all trying to find our paths.

Related Post: 3 Must-Haves for Ultimate Accountability in Grad School

Katherine’s POV

Mary and I meet on Facebook Messenger. Every week, we message each other to check in, asking each other about our upcoming goals, challenges, and any major events we have going on. We also send each other encouraging messages throughout the week, especially if we've already communicated that we could use the extra support that week or on a particular day. We constantly remind each other that we've got this and that we can and will meet our goals!

Messaging has been a great way to articulate our goals clearly, set up that accountability relationship, and facilitate a space to both celebrate our successes and share in our struggles. In addition to messaging, Mary and I also have met a few times using video chat. For example, we've met on two occasions via video on a Saturday morning (my time)/afternoon (Mary's time) to do a co-working planning session. The opportunity to chat face-to-face has been especially beneficial for me, as I appreciate getting to feel like Mary and I are just sharing a coffee at the coffee shop and chatting organically that way (despite living on opposite sides of the US!).

It's also been a great way to set aside time for scheduling and organization, as well as providing a space to really talk through things we might be challenged by in the upcoming week and both give and receive advice on the matter.

I have never had an accountability partner before and I am loving it so far. Mary is fantastic – she's super smart, hard-working, and I can relate to so many of the joys she finds in her research as well as the struggles. Whenever we chat over video, we always end up exclaiming, "I'm the same way!" or "I feel you on that!" It's both validating to know that someone else goes through the same things that I do or thinks about their grad work in the same ways, but it's also a cool experience to voice that validation for someone else.

Before having an accountability partner, I struggled to find peers to talk to about my weekly goals, schedule, and struggles. I didn't have those connections in my grad program itself when I first joined Toyin's Academic Society (almost a year ago now), although I have been working to build some relationships of that nature here in Hawaii.

Personally, I have a hard time being motivated by internal accountability and often struggle to set and stick to deadlines that are only formulated between me, myself, and I. However, since having an accountability partner who I can relate to on so many levels, who really encourages and inspires me to be the kind of grad student I want to be, and who is in a field and university distinct from my own, I've been able to better set my own goals, deadlines, milestones, and actually meet them! Being part of a supportive community is so important in grad school – having those peers who you feel like are always going to be "on your side" and encouraging you – and, even more directly, it can make a huge difference in your own self-confidence and sense of belonging knowing that there's at least one person you can always reach out to to talk through your experience with.

Mary and I have only been accountability partners for a little over a month now, but there have already been so many benefits as a result of our partnership. In a more general sense, I feel like I have someone I can relate to in grad school – which was something I lacked before – and who I can share openly about my experience with, including but not limited to goals, accomplishments, and challenges. I have also felt more motivated to support others as well, through listening to and validating Mary's experiences.

I very much appreciate the space we've created through our partnership where we can have a mutual exchange of advice and ideas. One surprising benefit of having a partnership with someone who is not in my program/at my university is that I was able to tell Mary about an interpersonal problem I was going through with a peer in my own program and discuss that situation openly. Mary really listened to what I was experiencing and validated the upset I felt due to this other student's actions as real and nothing to be ashamed about.

Given her support, I was able to communicate how I felt about the situation with the other student involved and actually ended up having a meaningful conversation with that person about the impact of their behavior, which is a benefit I couldn't have foreseen but which has made my interactions at school so much healthier and uninhibited! (I want to mention this benefit in particular, as I don't think we're often willing, as adults, to articulate issues we're having with others, given worries about shame or embarrassment, and I want to be someone who IS open about these things and able to create a pathway for others to feel safe and accepted if they need to address any issues as well).

Ultimately, I am grateful that Toyin had the foresight to pair Mary and I as accountability partners during inaugural Productivity Accelerator, and I can't wait to see how our partnership develops as we continue on with our grad school goals.

Isn’t their story amazing?  I was blown away that my program would foster such a lasting relationship and friendship! You can hang out with them and other grad students in my Facebook community for grad students!

So, are you interested in building an accountability relationship with another grad student?  I offer the Productivity Accelerator 2-3 times a semester. And I want to invite you to join the waitlist to be the first to know when the program launches again.  The doors may be open now!

3 Must-Haves for Ultimate Accountability in Grad School

There are a lot of moving parts when it comes to getting a graduate degree. Taking classes, reading assignments, writing papers, giving presentations, being a TA, going to conferences, conducting research, choosing a research area, finding an advisor, teaching classes, applying for jobs, and…oh yeah, trying to adult and have a social life too!

It’s a lot to wrap your head around, which makes it so easy for you to be over-stressed and experience burnout.

But there is definitely no reason to do it ALONE.

If you are familiar with The Academic Society, you know that we believe in accountability. Accountability can be the difference between making plans and schedules but still getting nothing done and actually following through on those plans.

In this post, I’ll be sharing three key tools to help you follow through on your goals and plans and actually get stuff done!

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Accountability Partners

The first tool to help hold you accountable is actually a person. I highly recommend that every grad student have an accountability partner. In grad school, a great candidate for an accountability partner is someone who is dedicated to both productivity and self-care in grad school.

In an accountability relationship, you can set up a time each week to meet (in person or virtually) and set goals for yourself for the week. Your accountability partner can help you set realistic goals each week so that you work on the right things. Remember, we want to be productive, not just busy.

Related Video: The Most Important Person in Your Grad School Life

Co-working Sessions

Have you ever had a co-working session in grad school? I have literally been my most productive self when I work in a co-working session! You can do these virtually or in person. When I was in grad school, me and one of my besties would either go to a library or coffee shop together on the weekends just to sit next to each other and get work done independently.

There’s something about sitting next to someone who is being productive that keeps you motivated to do the same. I find that when I work alone, I’m more likely to get distracted or quit earlier than I should.

Related Post: Productivity Accelerator for Grad Students

Public Affirmations

When I set a goal for myself, I find it helpful to share it with others. That way I feel more convicted to get my work done because I don’t want to be a liar! Lol! A great place to share your goals is in an online community like my Facebook group for grad students. I often post accountability threads in that group to see what my grad students are working on and check back in on them later in the week.

How to Get Started with Accountability in Grad School

I definitely recommend finding an accountability partner, having co-working sessions, and joining a community to share what you are working on. But that may seem overwhelming to do on your own. I actually offer all three of these tools in my program for grad students called the Productivity Accelerator.

The Productivity Accelerator Method is a two-week productivity sprint to help you be more focused and productive in grad school so that you can actually get stuff done instead of stressing over the amount of stuff you have to get done.  This method consists of three major components: planning, accountability, and follow-through. So if you are good at planning and setting goals but struggle with actually following through and implementing those plans, the key piece you are missing is accountability.  And the Productivity Accelerator Method will help you with that missing piece.

Goal Setting

The Productivity Accelerator begins with goal-setting. Step 1 is figuring out what and how much you want to accomplish in grad school during the 2-week bootcamp. The Productivity Accelerator includes:

  • a strategy session with Toyin

  • backwards design roadmap

  • creating your 2-week plan


The second step of the program, is all about holding yourself accountable. This is a group program for a reason. The Productivity Accelerator will include a community of like-minded grad students as well as:

  • community work sessions

  • accountability partners

  • daily check-ins


Raise your hand if you love to plan! Most of us do! But actually following through with your plans is the hardest part. In the Productivity Accelerator, we will use the 2-week sprint method to:

  • help you start (and beat procrastination)

  • move from abstract plan to concrete work

  • keep you focused on what’s important

So what do you think? Have some work you really need to get done in the next couple weeks? Interested in joining the Productivity Accelerator to be paired up with another grad student as your accountability partner and have co-working sessions for two weeks? You can sign up to be on the waitlist for the program to be the first to know when the program is offered (2-3 times a semester).

The Productivity Accelerator Method for Grad Students

Do you ever struggle with staying focused and motivated in grad school?  Do you ever get so overwhelmed that you fall into a black hole of procrastination, from which there is no escape? Ok, that was dramatic.  But it’s happened to me! So I’ve come up with a method to get get you out of your unmotivated, unproductive funk. It’s called the Productivity Accelerator Method.

But I do have to warn you.  It shouldn’t be used all semester long.  Just when you have a lot of work to get done and you need a boost of productivity and motivation.

The inspiration for this method that I came up with for you was taken from the tech industry.  Often, a team will have a large project that they have to complete in the future. So to optimize productivity, they break their larger project into smaller two-week sprints.

And that’s what the Productivity Accelerator Method is!  A two-week focused and productive sprint. So if you are ready to learn how to, occasionally, implement this method into your grad school routine, let’s jump right in.

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The Productivity Accelerator Method

The Productivity Accelerator Method is a two-week productivity sprint to help you be more focused and productive in grad school so that you can actually get stuff done instead of stressing over the amount of stuff you have to get done.  This method consists of three major components: planning, accountability, and follow-through. So if you are good at planning and setting goals but struggle with actually following through and implementing those plans, the key piece you are missing is accountability.  And the Productivity Accelerator Method will help you with that missing piece. But first, let’s start with the plan.

Planning your Sprint

The first thing you should do before you implement your sprint is to set the dates.  Look at your calendar and find find the two weeks that you want to do the sprint. Then, make a list of all of your due dates and deadlines that you will have during those two weeks as well as a week after your sprint dates.

When you have made a list of your assignments, papers, presentations, and lectures that you want to get done during your sprint, determine how much time you need to spend on each of your tasks.  And make sure that you are being realistic. Don’t write that you only need two hours to write a paper when it usually takes you 5 hours.

Once you know what you need to get done and how long you need to get those things done, go through your weekly schedule, or create one, and schedule productivity chunks.  Productivity chunks are big blocks of time set aside to get stuff done.  They can be anywhere from 1 hour to 4 hours. But it must be time that you dedicate to productivity and not messing around on Facebook or your email.

Related Mini-Course: How to Create a Productive Weekly Schedule in Grad School

So schedule your productivity chunks during your two-week sprint.  I’m normally an advocate for moderation, but I would recommend scheduling more productivity chunks than usual.  Remember, this is a two-week sprint and not something that you should try to endure for any longer! I can’t stress that enough!

Finally, create a progress chart.  You can set this up however you want.  By days or by assignments/tasks completed.  You are going to want to keep track of how much you get done so you can celebrate your wins each day!


Once you have scheduled your two-week sprint, you need to find a way to keep yourself accountable. I don’t recommend doing this on your own.  I recommend getting an accountability partner. I stressed the importance of having an accountability partner you need in one of my recent YouTube videos.

First, determine the kind of accountability you need.  Do you need regular check-ins, reminders, planning sessions, co-working sessions, or all of the above?  Decide what you need and then find an accountability partner to sprint with you. They don’t need to be working on the same things as you or even at the same time.  They just need to want to get stuff done and be open to some accountability.

If you don’t have anyone to ask to be your accountability partner, check out my Facebook group for grad students.  There are over 200 grad students in my group who are committed to success in grad school. It’s called The Academic Society for Grad Students and this is your official invitation.

Facebook Group: The Academic Society for Grad Students

Once you have an accountability partner, set accountability check-ins.  I would suggest meeting either in person or via video at the beginning and end of each week to set a plan and recap what happened and determine if adjustments need to be made.  You should definitely be in contact with your accountability partner 3-5 times a week but planning and reporting sessions don’t need to happen that often.


Now let’s talk about the final, most important, and longest component of The Productivity Accelerator Method.  This is what you actually do during your two-week sprint. Now that you have a plan with accountability, how do you actually get stuff done?

Each day, I want you to create a realistic to-do list for your productivity chunks.  Write down the tasks and assignments you want to get done each day. Then I want you to implement the Pomodoro Technique.

The Pomodoro Technique uses a timer to break down work into intervals, traditionally 25 minutes in length, separated by short breaks.  In grad school, I think you can stay focused for longer than 25 minutes so I recommend working for 45 minutes straight and then taking a 15 minute break and repeating the cycle until your productivity chunk is over.  This techniques keeps you from feeling completely drained and burned out after two hours of working and calling it a day. After each break, you will feel a bit refreshed and ready to take on the next task. It’s a way to game-ify your productivity.

I also recommend having one goal per pomodoro.  You want to be able to singularly focus on the task at hand.  When you multitask and have to switch what you are doing in your brain, you actually decrease your productivity by a lot.  So just work on one thing during your one pomodoro. You have the next one to work on something else.

After you have finished a productivity chunk, I want you to acknowledge what you were able to accomplish and celebrate the win.  You can share it with us in the Facebook group or treat yourself to your favorite self-care activity.

Facebook Group: The Academic Society for Grad Students

Of course, self-care is a part of The Productivity Accelerator Method!  It’s me, Toyin, advocate of self-care in grad school, writing this blog post.  So yeah, it’s included in the method. Not sure what is considered self-care? I’ve created a checklist in my #GRADBOSS planner of self-care activities you can do in grad school to help you decompress and feel less stressed.

Freebie: #GRADBOSS Semester Planner and Reflection Journal

And after you’ve done that, get some sleep and repeat the follow-through process the next day.  That’s it!

I do realize that this is a lot of work but that’s why it’s called a sprint.  And you will, for sure, be focused and get a lot of work done! So, if that’s what you are into, The Productivity Accelerator Method is for you!

Don’t want to do it alone?  Well, I’m inviting you to join me and a few other grad students to do The Productivity Accelerator Method together at the same time.  Periodically, I will be hosting a live Productivity Accelerator to give you a boost in focus and productivity.

During the live program I will be setting up accountability groups and planning co-working sessions so that we can (virtually) work together and pomodoro at the same time and have dance parties during our breaks!

Are you in?  If so, you can sign up for the waitlist to be the first to know when the next live Productivity Accelerator is happening.  Also, by signing up for the waitlist, you will get The Productivity Accelerator Method planning worksheet to help you set up your sprints whenever you are ready to implement one.

9 Benefits of Being Single in Grad School

I went into my PhD program straight from undergrad.  But most of my cohort did not. Some of them worked or got their master’s first.  So they had a little more life experience than me. And with that life experience came relationships.  Most of my fellow grad students were already married or in series relationships when they started grad school.

I was single during all 5 years of my PhD program.  And, at times, I felt like I was missing out on something by being single.

You know how it is.  Social media showing all of the engagement, wedding, and baby pics at the top of your feed.  

But it wasn’t until after I finished grad school that I realized there are a lot of benefits to being single in grad school!  And I’m sharing all 9 of the benefits I got in this blog post.

9 Benefits of Being Single in Grad School

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When you are single throughout an experience as grueling as grad school, it can be easy to feel like you are missing out on extra support both emotionally and financially. So I wrote this post and filmed this video to show you that your singleness can provide support for you too.

More time to make friends

As a grad student, once I started making friends in my department, I was able to spend a lot of time bonding with them.  We would have movie nights, game nights, and potlucks. I got to learn about new cultures and celebrate different holidays with my classmates.  I was also invited to join lots of study groups!

Related Post:  9 Ways to Make Friends in Grad School

Free time = Me time

Whenever I got a much needed break from studying, teaching, research, and other duties, I was able to spend that time however I wanted.  I didn’t have to spend it nurturing a relationship or catering to/respecting anyone else’s needs. I could binge Netflix shows, eat junk food, and go to the movies whenever I wanted without worrying about anyone else’s schedule.

Girls’ night all the time

When I was in grad school, me and my friends would have a girl’s night almost every week.  We loved watching the Shonda shows together (Grey’s Anatomy, Scandal, How to Get Away with Murder).  We would also do the occasional crafting project and attempt a Pinterest hack or make Halloween costumes together.

9 Benefits of Being Single in Grad School

You can be selfish

I’m an only child, so this was easy for me.  But when I was in grad school, I really didn’t have to worry about anyone else.  When I was stressed out or overwhelmed, all of that anxiety was my own. When I got home, I didn’t have to consider anyone else’s feelings or stresses.  And that was nice.

Easier job search experience

The nice thing about being single during a job search is that I could choose to apply for jobs wherever I wanted.  I didn’t have to consider anyone else’s opinions and I didn’t have to worry about finding a job for my partner in the new town or uprooting my family.  I was able to choose the perfect jobs for me!

Small salary for yourself

We all know grad students don’t get paid a lot, if at all.  But the nice thing about being single in grad school is that you don’t have to spend your salary on anyone else but yourself.  You could choose to eat Ramen everyday or go shopping with the cash. It’s all up to you!

Related Video: How to Survive on a Grad Student’s Budget

Build deeper friendships

Because I was able to spend so much time with my friends, I was able to develop deeper friendships.  Me and my grad school besties would be together all the time. I shared an office with one of them. We would give our tests and assign homework on the same days so that we could have grading parties.  The chair of the department started calling us the Three Amigos. And now that we all have jobs, we can visit each other’s towns and not have to spend money on a hotel. Whenever I go to Charlotte or Hawaii, housing is free! Enjoy the view from our sunrise hike in Hawaii!

9 Benefits of Being Single in Grad School

Conference travel is easier

This is more of a benefit of not having children.  But when I traveled to conferences, I could travel alone.  I didn’t have to worry about making arrangements for my partner or having to bring kids along.  Especially with funding for conferences, you can be funded but your family won’t be. The pic below is me and my friends from grad school having dinner at the Joint Math Meetings in 2017.

9 Benefits of Being Single in Grad School


I think this is the most important benefit of being single in grad school.  I was able to get to know ME in grad school! I know who I am now and therefore, I make way better decisions about dating than I would have back when I was in grad school.  I know exactly what I want and I’m less likely to settle. I know my worth.

Those are the 9 benefits I got from being single in grad school.  Are there any more that you’ve experienced? This post was not written to bash anyone in a relationship or with a family in grad school.  When you are single, it can feel so isolating and lonely and I just wanted to let you know that you are gaining a lot as well by being single in grad school!


And finally, I’ll leave you with a few blog posts by my favorite blogger, Sheila! She always shares the best dating stories on her blog! Here are a few of my favorites: 6 Dating Red Flags to Watch Out For, My Dating Confessions, Top 7 Worst Dates

I find my self crying laughing at her all to relatable blog posts about being a millennial woman on the dating scene.

When you check out her blog, make sure you leave a comment letting her know that I sent you!

9 Ways to Make Friends in Grad School

Making friends as an adult can be hard.  Especially when you are in grad school and everyone in your cohort is in a different stage of life.  It’s so easy to isolate yourself or think that you can be independent in grad school.

I actually believe that becoming friends and bonding with your grad school cohort is essential if you want your grad school experience to actually be enjoyable and not soul sucking.

That brings me back to the issue of making friends in grad school.  I’ve talked with a lot of people who are in grad school including the grad students in my Facebook group, The Academic Society for Grad Students, about making friends in grad school.  Many of them tell me that they haven’t been able to bond with their fellow grad students or that the rest of their program doesn’t like them or excludes them from study groups and social events.

If you’ve ever felt isolated or excluded in grad school, this post is for you.  I’m sharing my 9 tips for making friends in grad school.

How to Make Friends in Grad School

Having friends in grad school can be so beneficial and can help you have a better experience in grad school.  If you had friends in grad school, you could study together, ask for advice, and have an understanding shoulder to cry on.

My suggestion is to not try to start or jump in a study group right away.  Try bonding with your fellow grad students socially first. Then it will be much easier to work together.  But how do you do that?

I’m glad you asked! Here are my suggestions and actual things I did to make friends in grad school.

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Invite a classmate to a workout class.  

If you enjoy exercise, this could be a great way to make a friend.  When I was in grad school, my (now) friend, Veny, invited me and our other friend Kaitlyn to go to a Zumba class.  We had never hung out with Veny before. But we said yes. And that eventually led to us going to other exercise classes and becoming best friends!  We were inseparable in grad school and the chair of our department started calling us the Three Amigos.

Host a potluck.  

Potlucks are the way grad students party.  Gone are the days of clubbing and house parties.  As a grad student, all you want is free food and to go to bed at a reasonable hour.  So a potluck is the perfect social event to do that! Plus this can be a great way to learn about your classmates’ diverse cultures. Below is a picture of my potluck crew.

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Host a game night.  

In my last couple years in grad school, my department would always have game nights every Friday.  We would mostly play this werewolf game and it was a lot of fun. Game nights are a fun way to get to know people very quickly.

Go to a concert.  

If you live in a town where there are concerts, you should invite some of your fellow grad students to listen to some music with you.  When I was in grad school, the Backstreet Boys came to Tuscaloosa. Me and my two besties all grew up listening to Backstreet Boys so we were sooooo excited to be able to see them in concert.  It was such a great night and a great way to bond! We still talk about that concert 5 years later!

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Try a new restaurant.  

Something I really miss about living in Tuscaloosa, AL is the food!  Me and my friends would always try new restaurants together. You can invite a classmate or two to lunch with you to try out the cuisine in your new town.

Celebrate birthdays.  

The first outing I went on with my cohort was to celebrate Kaitlyn’s birthday.  Her birthday is in September. We had started school about a month before and I hadn’t spent any time outside of class with anyone in my program.  So when I was invited to Kaitlyn’s birthday lunch, I quickly accepted and got to know some of the other people in the department. We even took a picture commemorate the day (you can see how fresh faced and young we were below).  My suggestion is to find out when someone’s birthday is and have a lunch in their honor. Or, invite people to celebrate your birthday!

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Movie night.  

I love a good movie night.  You can invite a few people over for a girl’s night and watch a rom-com, superhero movie, or whatever you’re into.  I actually invited a few of the girls from my department over for a movie night in our first semester. We made cookies and mozzarella sticks and just talked the whole night.  We never even picked out a movie to watch!

Go to football games.  

If you are in grad school, you are probably at a big state school where football is a big deal.  I went to the University of yeah, it was a BFD. Me and my cohort would go to the games together, suffer in the heat, and laugh at the ridiculous, over-passionate undergrads.  It was a great bonding experience for us all! Roll Tide!

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Join an online community.  

As I mentioned before, I host a Facebook group for grad students.  In that group, I help with accountability, time management, and productivity.  So if you are interested in being a part of that group, click here to request to join and I’ll accept you!

Those are my suggestions for making friends and bonding with your grad school cohort.  I suggest to start socially. Once you get to know each other socially and become friends, you’ll be someone your classmates think of when they want to study with a group or work together on assignments.  You can have fun together and kick butt together in grad school together!

How to Manage Your Time and be Productive in Grad School

Do you ever feel like you’re working all the time but never get anything done?  Or do you find yourself working on one task all day and neglecting your other responsibilities?  Or maybe you have so much to do that you forget what you need to get done and end up working late or waking up super early to get stuff done?

All of the above are my experiences from grad school.  I always felt like I wasn’t being productive enough to get all of my work done.  But really, it was a lack of time management skills that I was missing.

However, I quickly got my act together and found a way to manage my time more effectively and be more productive every day.  I started implementing a morning office routine that helped me to stay on track, manage my time, and be productive every single day.

And today, I’m sharing my productive office morning routine with you!  You can read all about it below or watch my YouTube all about it. I even have a pdf template of my morning routine that you can use.

Productive Office Morning Routine

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  1. Brain dump everything you need to get done today.  The first thing I do when I get to my office is take 5 minutes to sit in silence and write down everything that I need to get done.

  2. Prioritize your to-do list.  Then I go through my list and figure out what things need to get done or started first.

  3. Determine your top 3.  Did you know that if you have more than 3 tasks on your to-do list, you are less likely to get everything done?  So I like to create a smaller priority list of 3 tasks that I need to get done first.

  4. Set time limits.  I also like to write down how much time I plan to spend on each task.  This is the time management portion of the routine. If a task takes longer than expected, you can always come back to it later after you’ve finished the remaining tasks on your priority list.

  5. Check your email.  Finally, I check my email to see if there are any other responsibilities or tasks that I need to remember to do in my day.  Warning. Never do this step first. It’s so easy to waste time in your inbox.

You can get a pdf template of this morning routine that you can use every morning by entering your name and email below!

I hope that you have found this post helpful!  If you try out this routine, I want to hear about how it works for you!  DM me on Instagram @theacademicsociety_ and share your productivity wins with me!

How to be Productive during Thanksgiving Break

How are the final weeks of the semester going? As a lecturer, things are starting to wind down for me. But if you're a grad student, Thanksgiving break is likely the calm before the storm that is the final weeks of the semester. Whether you are a grad student or a new faculty member, I want to help you make the most of your Thanksgiving (or Fall) Break.

Typically, when you set out to be productive during a big break, one of two things will happen. You will be so focus on your goals and being productive that you don’t enjoy your break and you come back to school completely drained. Or, you have every intention to get stuff done but you spend all of your time with friends and family or just watching Netflix and then you are forced to do all of your work the night before school starts back.

I want to help you find a balance between the two. Because, I truly believe that you can be successful in academia and live a fulfilling life at the same time! So, here are my tips.

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How to be Productive During Thanksgiving Break

I shared a video on my YouTube channel all about how to do this! Here are the highlights:

1. Make a plan to be productive.

You know I love a good planning session! Before you start your break, take out a notebook or a planner and write down all of the things you want to get done during the break. Then condense the list to only the things that are a priority. The key is to be realistic. You don’t want to come up with a plan that is too overwhelming.

2. Choose the days you want to get stuff done. Try to choose no more than 2 days.

It’s so easy to say that you want to get stuff done and then just sit on the couch and watch Netflix all week. Just me? Something I like to do is to choose 2 days during my break that I want to be productive. That way, I can mentally prepare myself and hopefully not procrastinate.

Related video: The only way to Beat Procrastination

3. Choose the tasks you want to get done...before the break, so you don't waste time deciding what you need to during your productive time.

Now that you’ve decided the days you want to work. Go back to your to-do list and schedule which tasks you want to get done on each day.

4. Try to spend no more than 3 hours per day getting stuff done.

You really don’t need all day to get work done. I recommend 3 hours of working time per day. If you are productive for 3 hours, there is sooooo much that you can get done. And you still have the rest of the day to enjoy your friends and family!

5. Schedule time to enjoy yourself!

Don’t forget about YOU! Is there a movie you want to see, or friend you want to visit? Make time in your productive Thanksgiving schedule to do something that fills you up!

I hope that this post was helpful and that you enjoy your break so that you are ready to conquer the remaining weeks of the semester!

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Teaching Outfits for the First Week of Classes

Can you believe fall semester has started again?  Summer wasn't quite long enough for me but I always enjoy getting prepared for a new semester.  If you've been a part of The Academic Society for a while, you know I'm a planner.  I love to set goals for myself, make schedules, and to-do lists to keep myself organized and productive throughout the semester.

And style is no different.  I love planning and putting different outfits together.  When I was in elementary school, I would create a full August calendar of outfits that I planned to wear for the first month of school.  Then I would hang up the items I planned to wear for the first week of classes IN ORDER in my closet.

I don't quite do that now.  But I do still plan my outfits the night before I have to teach.  That helps my morning routine run so much more smoothly.

This semester I'm teaching an 8am class so I need to be up and out of the door in a timely and organized fashion each morning.  I think I did a pretty good job this week.  Anyway, this post is all about what I wore to school for the first week of classes.

There will be shoppable links for each outfit.  And if something is really old, like my first dress, I'll find something similar for you.  Some of theses links will be affiliate links which means, if you purchase from my links, I may receive a commission from your order at no additional cost to you.  #sidehustle

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Also, I filmed a YouTube video of all of my outfits as well if you prefer to see my teaching outfits in motion.



Monday Teaching Outfit

Monday was the first day of classes for me.  And I usually like to wear pants on the first day of classes. But this time I decided to go for a dress.  I always make it a point to look more "professional" on the first day of classes so my students don't assume I'm one of them.

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I bought this dress like 3-4 years ago and I still love it.  It's by Nine West and it's very high quality.  One of the things that made this dress a great candidate for the first week of classes is that it has lining inside which helps your sweat not show through.  Because first day jitters is still a thing for me.  And working technology in front of a group of people who don't know you is always stressful!

The other stars of my outfit are my shoes.  I love these shoes soooo much!  They are perfect for teaching!  They are by the brand Eurosoft and they are ridiculously comfortable.  I always get compliments from older women on these shoes!  Lol!

Tuesday Teaching Outfit

Tuesday is a really short day for me.  I only teach for 75 calculus class meets 4 days a week, so on Tuesday I usually prepare a group activity which means I'm not lecturing.  I'm usually walking around chatting with the students and answering their questions.

So this Tuesday, I decided to wear cropped jeans and a flowy top.  The key to a good teaching shirt, for me, is that it's long in the back.  I teach math so I'm often lifting my arms to explain something or write on the board.  And I don't want my back or my butt to be out!

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When I wear really flowy, boxy shirts like this one, I like to wear a longer necklace to bring the top closer to my I don't look as boxy.  I'm also really loving these sandals from Target!  They work with just about every outfit!

Wednesday Teaching Outfit

Wednesday was another full day for me.  And after school I play trivia with my friends.  So I wanted to wear an outfit I would be comfortable in all day.  So I decided to wear all black.  My favorite color palette!  The shirt I'm wearing is only $10 at H&M!  Looks like it's on sale for $5.99 but they are out of the color I'm wearing.

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I'm also wearing a really cute dainty pendant necklace!  I got it in one of my Trunk Club boxes!  I love adding it when I'm wearing a button front top!

Related Video:  Is Trunk Club Appropriate for Grad Students?

Friday Teaching Outfit

On Friday, I knew I would have a really long day.  I was covering someone else's class that meets during the small break between my classes.  So that meant I was teaching for 5 hours straight with no breaks and no food!  Therefore, I wanted to be as comfy as possible.  So it was a sneaker day for me.

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I love having a pair of black and white sneakers that go with everything.  For the last two years, I was rocking my favorite adidas sneakers.  And this year, I've been loving these Nike's.  They are perfect for when you have to stand all day long and walk across campus multiple times.

I'm also wearing my favorite jeans by Vince Camuto.  I must buy more pairs in different washes!

So that concludes my teaching outfits of the week.  I hope it gave you some inspiration on what to wear when you teach your classes!

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The Grad School Tag

🎓Tag! You're it! I just created a Grad School Tag and I want to hear your answers!

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1. When did you start grad school?
2. What are/did you studying in grad school?
3. What type of degree program are/were you in?
4. What were you most nervous about before starting grad school?
5. What do you wish you would have known about grad school before you started?
6. What is your best grad school memory?
7. What is the most embarrassing or awkward thing that has happened to you in grad school?
8. Who is your grad school bestie?
9. How would you describe your grad school style?
10. What do you want to do when you finish grad school?

🎓Share this video and tag your grad school friends! You can go Live in our group, The Academic Society for Grad Students, or write out your answers in a post, or write a blog post with your answers, or create a YouTube video with your answers.

🎓But wherever you answer, make sure that you tag me or share it with me!

Failure in Grad School

Today, I want to talk about something I've never talked about in this group on this blog: FAILURE.  It's a huge part of the grad school experience and it tests our resilience!

Whenever I was having a hard time in grad school, I would call my mom and she would always tell me, "This is the grad school experience. It doesn't matter how many times you fail or feel like you want to quit. You just have to keep going. Getting a PhD is all about withstanding the pressure and not giving up."

So this this post is all about failure in grad school and how to survive and overcome it!

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 Why Failure is a Part of Grad School & How to Overcome the Fear of Failure


Fear of Failure

The first thing I want to talk about is fear of failure. And my challenge to you is to change your mindset about failure. Whenever you experience it, try to think to yourself, "yes, this is the grad school experience and as long as I keep moving forward, I'm succeeding at being a grad student!"

The fear of failure can cause you to be reluctant to try new things or reattempt the thing you failed at.

The fear of failure may cause you to self-sabotage through procrastination, failure to follow through, or becoming overly anxious.

 The fear of failure can cause low self-esteem or low self-confidence. You could find yourself saying, "I'm not good enough to apply for this grant or fellowship." DON'T DO THIS!!!

 The fear of failure can breed perfectionism. Not the kind that makes you do your best. But the kind of perfectionism that prevents you from trying something that you could fail at.

So remember, it's is COMPLETELY NORMAL to fail in grad school. That means you are doing it right!


What Failure Looks Like in Grad School

Let's talk about what failure looks like in grad school. It can be very obvious or very subtle.

Note: If you are a grad student, you have experienced one of these!  We need to train ourselves to look at our failures, learn from them, and move forward!

What does failure look like in grad school?

  • running out of time to complete an assignment

  • failing an exam, project, or paper

  • "disappointing" your advisor (quotes because it feels like disappointment to you, but it's all a part of the advisor-advisee relationship)

  • needing a new advisor or committee member

  • getting poor teaching evaluations

  • having your grant proposal or journal submission rejected

There are many other ways to feel like a failure but you cannot let these roadblocks stop you from achieving your goals and graduating!  Because remember, once you have your degree, no one will care about any of those "failures" mentioned above!


How to Overcome the Fear of Failure in Grad School

We’ve already established that failure is a part of grad school. And the fear of failure can be paralyzing and hold you back.  Here are some tips to help you overcome your fear of failure:

Analyze all potential outcomes – Many people experience fear of failure because they fear the unknown. Remove that fear by considering all of the potential outcomes of your decision. I’m all about making pros and cons lists to help me think through consequences.

 Learn to think more positively – Positive thinking can help you build self-confidence and reduce self-sabotage.

 Look at the worse-case scenario – In some cases, the worst case scenario may be genuinely disastrous, and it may be perfectly rational to fear failure. But in most cases, the worst case may actually not be completely life-ruining. And being able to see this can help you move forward. 

Have a back up plan – If you're afraid of failing at something, having a "Plan B" in place can help you feel more confident about moving forward.

Remember, failure is something that all grad students experience.  It's part of the process!  Your job is to keep going and not give up!  I hope this post is was helpful! Let me know how you’ve failed and overcome that failure in the FB group for grad students!

Organization and Workflows in Grad School

Last Friday, I was asked to be on a panel for the grad students in my department, the Math Department, to answer questions about organization and developing workflows in grad school.  Building in organization and workflows while you are in grad school can help you manage your time more efficiently and be more productive. And that is definitely what we want in grad school!  There is no time to waste!


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In this post, I will list the questions that were asked and provide some of the answers given by the panel.

Organization and Workflows in Grad School Panel Discussion

What is your biggest challenge to balancing teaching, research, service, and home life?


Answer 1:  You can do all of these things well; but not at the same time.

Answer 2:  Not knowing myself or when I worked best.  I’m a morning person but the classes I taught would be in the morning.  So when the afternoon came, I was exhausted and not motivated to do research.


What do you know now about organization and balance that you wish you knew when you first started grad school?


Answer 1:  Knowing myself and when I was most productive for different tasks.

Answer 2:  Creating a morning routine, especially when you don’t have morning classes or classes at all.

Answer 3:  Dedicating time for myself helps to reduce burnout.

Answer 4;  SLEEP! The amount of work you get done and the quality of it dramatically increases when you have enough sleep.


Related Video:  How to Prevent Burnout in Grad School


Are there ways students can work together to help each other balance their schedules?


Answer 1:  My friends and I planned our tests for the same day so that we could have grading parties together and we wouldn’t procrastinate.  We also planned gym time together.

Answer 2:  Having shared folders for teaching materials is very helpful.

Answer 3:  Studying together helps.

Answer 4:  Student led seminars to help fill in the gaps for topics not learned in classes.


What apps or technology do you use to help keep organized?


Answer 1:  Google calendar

Answer 2:  Trello (I have a training called The Grad School Toolkit that walks you through how to use Trello in grad school.)

Answer 3:  Loose leaf paper instead of notebooks and then scanning those pages to have digital copies of all your notes

Answer 4:  Dropbox/Box/One Drive (cloud storage)


How do you have productive meetings with your advisor?


Answer 1:  Ask questions!

Answer 2:  Create an agenda for your meetings.  I had a formula that I used every meeting:

  • What we talked about last time

  • What I worked on

  • Where I got stuck

  • Questions I have

  • HW/readings for next time


How do you stay on task and not lose time?


Answer 1:  To-do lists

Answer 2:  Order to-do lists by priority and give yourself time limits.

Answer 3:  Set deadlines for yourself.

Answer 4:  Get an accountability partner and meet with them once a week to set goals and discuss progress.


I hope that this panel discussion was helpful.  If you want to join me live, when I have these talks, feel free to join my Facebook group for grad students.

Holiday Gift Guide for Graduate Students

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The end of the semester is near and you are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel that is fall semester of grad school.  The holidays are approaching which means you’ll probably have a little time to spend with your friends and family.  Remember them?


I remember, when I was in grad school, I would always wait until the last minute to start thinking about holiday gifts for my friends and family.  There was always just too much work to do and my brainpower was better used elsewhere.  So, once the semester was over, I would take a little break and after a couple of days I would start thinking about gifts.  Which would be last minute and I would have no idea where to start.


That’s why I decided to create this gift guide for you.  So that whenever you are ready, you can come back here, click click click, and have all of your gifts purchased.

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When I was coming up with this list, I wanted to make sure that everything had at least two of the following 3 criteria.

  1. The gift is inexpensive.

  2. The gift can be bought online.

  3. The gift can stand alone and won’t need to be packaged with other odds and ends to feel complete.


Holiday Gift Idea 1:  Accessories


If you have someone in your life who enjoys style and material things, I’ve found that accessories are great holiday gifts.  I’ve given my family members scarves and jewelry that they still wear to this day.


Here are some accessories for the women in your life.


Here are some accessories for the men in your life.


Holiday Gift Idea 2:  Fragrances


You can never go wrong with a good scent.  My family members love fragrances and perfume or cologne would make an awesome gift for them.  When I was younger, and just hitting puberty, my aunt would always ask me, “So, have you found your scent yet, you need a signature scent!”  During the holidays, fragrance sets are all the rage, so you can help your loved ones find their signature scent or add to their collection.


Holiday Gift Idea 3:  Food


Everyone loves to eat delicious things.  And I don’t think anyone would be upset about receiving food as a gift.  My grandad always loved those holiday sausage packs so we made sure to get him holiday sausage every single year.  It was a tradition.  I’ve recently learned about this company called Mouth.  OMG!  Everything looks delicious.  They have all of the sweet, savory, mouthwatering things.  Check out their homepage to browse around or you could look at their gift bags between $25-$50.


Holiday Gift Idea 4:  Handmade Gifts


In grad school, after my fellowship was over and I wasn’t balling anymore, I had to really cut down on my holiday gift giving budget.  So I tried making my gifts.  And my family still raves about those gifts today.


Scrubs, Lotions, and Creams


The first time I made my own holiday gifts as a grad student, I decided to make beauty products for my family.  I made lip scrubs, body butters, and shaving cream for all of the members of my family.  Then I packaged them up in cute little mason jars from Hobby Lobby.  I even created little labels that listed the ingredients.


Here’s a tutorial I found on Pinterest to get you started.  I would suggest starting with a lip/body scrub.  All you need is coconut oil, peppermint essential oil, and sugar.  You may have all of these already.

Framed Graphics


The next year, I wanted to stick with the homemade theme so I printed and framed cute little graphics for my family.  It was a big hit.  My sister actually put hers on her desk at school.  She teaches high school.  The graphic says, “You are amazing, remember that!”  

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All you have to do, is look up quotes on Pinterest, head to Canva and make a cute graphic for free.  Then get it printed.  I created 5x7 pictures and framed them.  There are some nice inexpensive frames on Amazon.


Customized Notebooks


If you have a friend who is really into planning and journaling, you could make them a custom notebook and buy them fun pens.  I tried and failed at this, but I found a new tutorial on Pinterest that looks much simpler.  Also, these pens are fabulous!


Holiday Gift Idea 5:  Books


Books make awesome gifts for a person who loves to read.  Books that are funny, thoughtful, or sentimental are great options.  One of my favorite books is Why is Everyone Hanging Out Without Me by Mindy Kaling.  Cookbooks are great gifts as well.  This one by Chrissy Teigen looks amazing!


A couple of years ago, I got my friend, who has a cat, a hilarious book about cats called I Could Pee on This.


Holiday Gift Idea 6:  TV series/Movies


If you have a friend who is also in grad school, or is just really busy in general, it’s highly likely that they have missed all of the most recent season of their favorite TV show.  Or they weren’t able to get to the theaters to see a movie that they were excited about.  It would be so awesome if you could give them the latest season of their favorite show or a movie they wanted to see.  The holidays are a perfect time for them to catch up.


Not sure what they would like?  Maybe they have suggested a show or movie for you to watch.  You can buy it for them and you can watch it together.  The Big Bang Theory is always a good option.


Holiday Gift Idea 7:  Novelty T-shirts


All you need to know is one thing your friend or family member loves.  Then order a t-shirt with that thing on it.  They would love it and wear it all the time.  I’ve had my eye one this Gilmore Girls shirt for a while.


Holiday Idea 8:  Job Application Crash Course

If you have a friend, maybe it’s you, who is planning to graduate this spring or summer and they haven’t started their job applications, you could give the gift of productivity.  There are so many documents that you are required to write to submit an application including CVs, teaching statements, research statements, cover letters, and more.  So you can either spend your break researching what all of those should look like, or you could just let me tell you in the Job Application Crash Course.  Click here to learn more about it.


I’ve also created a free job application resources guide, sign up below to get it in your inbox.

How to Prepare for the End of the Semester as a Grad Student


As a graduate student, the end of the semester can come with mixed feelings.  Excitement.  Because you will finally be free and have a little break to rest and start fresh next semester.  But you may also feel stress and overwhelm.  Because everything HAS to get done by the end of the semester.


You may have final exams, papers to write, presentations to prepare, research to make headway on, and maybe tests to write.  Not to mention other duties you have like tutoring, proctoring finals, and grading finals.  That’s a lot!


It’s so easy to experience burnout during this time and shut down.  But that is not what you are going to do this semester.  This year, you are going to have a manageable plan.  That starts right now.  So that you won’t experience overwhelm and unnecessary stress.  It is grad school, there will be some stress.  You just have to figure out how to handle it!  Now you have me to guide you along and help you come up with a strategy for success.

How to prepare for the end of the semester as a graduate student | The Academic Society


Why you Need a Strategy for the End of the Semester



You need to sleep.  Getting a full night’s rest (whatever that means for you) will help you think more clearly and get things done at the end of the semester.  I recently learned that when we sleep, our brain doesn’t shut down and also go into sleep mode.  It’s actually the opposite.   Sleep is actually an active time for our brains where a lot of processing, restoration, and strengthening occurs.  Don’t we need all three of these to happen at the end of the semester?


Eat Healthy

A part of your end of semester strategy should include eating real food and actual meals.  It’s so easy to “work, work, work, work, work” - Rihanna. And forget about fueling your body until it’s too late and you just grab quick snacks for sustenance.  I don’t want you to do this!  I want you to come up with a plan and a strategy that works for you so that you don’t forget to eat and you can have time to make (or buy) full and balanced meals for yourself.


Me Time

One of the easiest ways to experience burnout is when you don’t make time for yourself.  Having some time every week where you are doing something that you want to do and helps you recharge is so valuable.  Especially at the end of the semester when it’s so easy to forget about yourself and charge full force into the finish line.

Related Video:  What to do when you are feeling burnout in grad school

How to Create a Strategy for the End of the Semester

  1. Start at the end:  figure out exactly what will happen and what needs to get done at the end of the semester.  Write a list of all final exams, papers, and presentations that you need to take, write, create, proctor, and/or grade.  Are there any other things that you MUST get done by the end of the semester like applying for jobs or registering for a conference?  Write those down too.

  2. Prioritize your list:  figure out which items on your list are most important to you.  Of course all things on your list need to get done but some things hold more weight than others.  Decide which 3 things are most important and put a star (*) by them.

  3. Time Management:  Determine how much time you need to prep, start, and reach the result of your top 3 goals/responsibilities.  Can you start prepping for these things now?

  4. Figure out what needs to get done now:  Look ahead in your calendar and figure out what other assignments, projects, reports, classes, etc need to get done before you can start working on your list from step 1.

  5. Plan:  Now that you know what you need to get done, how long it will take, and the stuff that needs to get done first, you can actually schedule when you will do these tasks.  I’ve created a pdf called the End of Semester Strategy Roadmap that will help you keep track of what needs to get done by the end of the semester as well a video that walks you through how to use it.


Now go forth and end this semester on high note!  I know you can do it!

How to Prepare for the Job Market while you are still in grad school

If you have been following the blog awhile, you know that we have been focusing on how to plan for a productive week, every week.  Up until now, we've been planning one week at a time and one day at a time.

Now, I want you to start thinking big! What are your big goals for grad school? What kind of career do you want when you finish? What do you want to be known for in your field?

In this post, we will be taking these big goals, and breaking them down into smaller, more manageable baby goals that you can achieve each semester.

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Figure Out What you are working for

Understanding what you may want to do pretty early in your grad school career can be super helpful.

If you are interested in a teaching career, make sure that you spend your time in grad school preparing to teach. I know it may be easy to teach the same course every semester. But, it would look really good on your job applications if you taught a variety of class. You can start requesting to teach different classes. Also, you can go to seminars and conferences about teaching in your field.

If you are interested in a research career, you should definitely focus on your own research. But you should try to expand your interests. Try applying for a summer research program this summer. Go to conferences and seminars in your field. Also, take a course or seminar on advising undergraduates in research.

If you are interested in an industry or government job, try applying for summer internships to gain experience. Look for opportunities to work on a team.

When I was a graduate student, I built my grad school career all around teaching. I took courses on teaching, went to seminars and conferences, and taught many different classes. This really set me apart from the other applicants applying for the same types of jobs as me.


How to Prepare for a Teaching Job

When you are early in your graduate school career, even if you aren’t teaching classes yet, it’s important to take advantage of every opportunity that is related to teaching.  For example, if a graduate teaching training or course is offered, take it seriously.

If your department offers a course on teaching in your field, take it!  When I was in grad school, I took a course called Teaching College Math.  It was required that I take the course for my fellowship, but it was soooo helpful!  I studied learning outcomes, how to write a syllabus, about assessments and more.  Plus, it was something I could add to my CV that showed that I had teacher training beyond what most grad students had.

I also went to seminars on teaching and learned about active learning.  I was then able to implement what I had learned in my classes and write about what I tried in my teaching statement when I was applying for jobs.

During the JMM (Joint Mathematics Meetings), the big conference in my field, I took mini-courses on how to teach statistics as well has how to advise undergraduates in research.

So as you continue throughout your grad school experience, look for any opportunity that relates to teaching and take advantage of it.


How to Prepare for a Research Job

Disclaimer:  I’ve never wanted a job where research was a focus, so definitely consult your advisor after reading this blog post.

The first piece of advice is a no brainer.  Work very hard on your research.  Make sure you attend seminars and colloquia in your research area.  It would also be helpful if you were able to collaborate with others on a project.

When you are applying for jobs, it will be very likely that you will be the only person in your department working in your specific field.  So it’s nice to be able to show that you can collaborate and work with others.  See if you can find a way to apply your research in other fields.  Interdisciplinary research was a pretty hot topic when I was on the job market.

Whenever you hear about summer research opportunities, you should definitely apply.  I participated in a program called the Industrial Math/Stats Modeling Workshop where I worked on a research team with 5 other members.  We ended the program by writing a research paper and presenting our work.

Reaching out to other schools’ summer research programs also gives you networking opportunities.  Perhaps you’ll meet the very people who will want to hire you someday.

Finally, try to make significant progress on your dissertation research so that you can get a couple papers published before you graduate.


How to Prepare for an Industry/Government Job

Since my research area is statistics, I definitely considered working in industry.  My advisor urged me to take classes outside of my department that would build my list of skills.

I took classes where I learned how to program in SAS and SQL.  I also learned a few more skills in my summer research program IMSM which I mentioned in the section above.

I also think that you should look for summer internship opportunities and find people to collaborate with.  Any evidence of working with a team will look great on your resume when applying for a job in industry or government.


I hope this post gave you something to think about.  So, starting now, be on the lookout for opportunities NOW that will help you in the FUTURE on the job market.

Productivity Hack: Why you Should Keep a Journal as a Grad Student or New Faculty Member

I know what you may be thinking.  Isn’t journaling for preteen girls to write their current crush’s name inside of a hand-drawn heart?  Well, yeah.  But it’s also for graduate students who want to succeed and progress in their programs feeling less overwhelmed and manage time more efficiently!  It’s a great way to keep your productivity waaaay up!

I started keeping a journal last summer when I was planning my blog launch (my second blogging attempt....).  In it, I kept my daily to-do lists, my long and short-term goals, as well as ideas for the future.  The specific type of journal I kept is called a Bullet Journal, and let me tell you, it was so fun!  If you want to learn more about the Bullet Journal, or as us journalers call it, the BuJo, check out this super official website as well as these really pretty ones on Pinterest.

In today’s, post, I am giving you a list of reasons why keeping a journal is especially important for productivity while in graduate school.

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Keeping a journal can give you a safe place to reflect on the thoughts and emotions you have about your career.  Maybe you had a wonderful day at teaching or at work.  It’s good to acknowledge what you did that day and what made it so great.  Or maybe your day wasn’t the best.  Writing about it can be a nice release of those negative feelings and can help you to not dwell on it longer than necessary so that you can move forward.


Journaling is great for motivation.  Something that I love to add to my journal is a to-do list.  Checking something off of my to-do list is so satisfying and it helps me to celebrate each little win.  In an article in the Harvard Business Review called The Power of Smalls Wins, the authors’ research proved that making progress in meaningful work boosts emotions, motivation, and perceptions during a workday.  Writing in a journal can give you a place to keep track of that progress.

Keeping Track of Accomplishments

It’s also nice to keep a running list of all of your achievements.  If you do something awesome or get complimented on your work, write it down.  You’ll need to have these things on hand when it’s time for to start applying for jobs and funding opportunities!


Speaking of job applications, do you know everything that is expected of you to apply for jobs in academia?  If not, find out immediately.  You can get a checklist here.  Then you can write down all of these things in your journal.  And now that you know where you are going, you just need to make a plan to get there.  For example, being innovative in teaching is a part of my promotion requirements.  So each week I try to do something new in the classroom to see how my students react to it along with how well they grasp the material.

Related Post:  When to Start Applying for Jobs in Academia


A journal is a great place to write down all of your ideas for research or teaching, big or small.  Maybe there are colleagues that you want to collaborate with or service projects that you want to put together or be a part of.  Maybe there is new research in your field and you want to apply the results in your project.  The sky’s the limit!  I try to keep a running list of new activities for my students to work on in groups.  So far, the biggest hit was Derivative Sudoku.  Today, I’m trying a matching game with graphs of functions and their derivatives.  I’ll let you know how it goes.

How I use my Journal Daily

  1. I like to take 5-10 minutes either in the morning or the night before work to plan my day.  This typically consists of a To-Do list.  See my pro tip below.

  2. Throughout the day, I will write down any new ideas or goals that I think of.

  3. At the end of the day, I reflect on everything I’ve done and evaluate what’s working for me and what is not.

Pro Tip:  Try to keep your To-Do list short.  3-4 items is about all that one can manage without becoming overwhelmed.

I hope that you have enjoyed this post.  Using my journal helps me to stay focused at work and keep my productivity at 100%.  Do you currently keep a journal?  What type of things do you write in it?  If you don’t keep a journal, are thinking about keeping one now?